You've made it through the puppy phase. Now you've hit adolescence, and for many owners this is when things feel like they're falling apart. They're not. But you do need to understand what's happening and why.
5-6 months: the confidence surge
Your dog is getting bigger and more physically capable. They're starting to test boundaries, not out of defiance, but because their confidence is growing and they're naturally exploring their social environment.
Training becomes more variable. They may not respond to commands they knew perfectly a month ago. This is normal adolescent behaviour, not a training failure.
This stage matters for another reason too: the socialisation window closes at 6 months. If your dog hasn't had regular, positive exposure to other dogs, people, and everyday situations by then, fear-based behaviours become much harder to shift once they're an adult. If you're behind on this, the next few weeks are the time to catch it up, not next year.

6-8 months: the difficult middle
This is the age bracket where trainers see the most dogs surrendered. Owners expected a well-trained dog by now. Instead they've got an awkward, inconsistent adolescent who ignores recall, pulls on the lead, and finds everything more interesting than them.
What's happening biologically: the prefrontal cortex (the decision-making and impulse control centre) is still developing. It won't be fully developed until 18-24 months in most breeds.
What this means practically: lower your expectations of off-lead reliability. Increase management. Keep the Relational Leadership and positive reinforcement work going. Be patient.

8-12 months: stabilisation
Most dogs start to settle down around 8-12 months. You'll notice more consistency in their responses. Recall improves. Lead manners improve.
This is a good time to join a dog sports class, advance to more complex training, or bring in a trainer for any remaining challenges. If your dog missed the puppy school window, our Adolescent Program is built for exactly this stage, pairing adult dog training with continued puppy-specific support.
Get ongoing support for your puppy journey
The 5-12 month period is when most owners feel like giving up. The right support makes all the difference. That's why we created our free Skool community.
- Weekly live Q&A sessions focused on adolescent challenges at every stage
- Complete puppy courses including a full adolescence module with realistic expectations
- A supportive community of other owners going through the exact same phase
- Troubleshooting guides for the most common adolescent problems: recall, lead pulling, reactivity
- Updated resources on getting through the 6-8 month window without losing hope
Best part? It's completely free. No subscription. No catch. Just dog owners helping dog owners.
Our approach follows Relational Leadership and positive reinforcement, delivered by a trainer accredited by the Dog Trainer Academy and Red Cross-certified in pet first aid. Join the Skool community today and get the ongoing support you need to get through adolescence and come out the other side with the dog you always wanted.